a comfortable cup of tea

a comfortable cup of tea
Showing posts with label Grandma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grandma. Show all posts

Monday, November 1, 2010

recycling old books

I had 8 of these MacMillan Pocket Classics that belonged to my Grandmother and Great Aunt. They were filled with penciled notes and comments from their high school days. I decided to recycle them in order to make them useable and gift them to each of my siblings. I removed the pages from each of the books to use for other ideas. Then I followed Cathi's tutorial to put a pocket on the inside of each cover. I then visited Dollar Tree and found some decorative pads of paper ... some with pockets and others with calendars ... and some cute little mini pens to finish each set.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

the good ... the bad ... and the ugly!

The GOOD:
Taking my little nephew,
Mijo,
to play in McDonald's Playland ...
watching him concentrate
on the computer screen in front of him
as he tries to figure out
why the bike he sits on
isn't actually moving.
The BAD:
Being told that my
grandson
is darling.
My GRANDSON?
The UGLY:
Doing the math
in my head
and realizing I really
COULD
BE
HIS GRANDMOTHER!!!
Yeah,
well ...
we're never going back
to THAT McDonalds
again.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

gram

Clearing out a house which has been full of life for 40+ years of yesterdays yields nearly forgotten treasures of family history. One of those treasures is a handmade prayerbook that belonged to my maternal Grandmother. It was made of a simple, vinyl 4"x6" binder that she filled with holy cards, and typed and handwritten prayers.


After suffering a debilitating stroke in the early 1960s which left the right side of her body paralyzed, Grandma learned to walk anew, as well as to write and eat with her left hand. She then lived between her two daughters, spending spring and summer with us in the north; fall and winter with my aunt in the south. In her last years when her health declined, Grandma remained with us until her death in 1981. When Grandma died, I wrote a poem about her life, aging and death as experienced through the eyes of her once little, then pre-teen and teen, now young adult grandaughter, in which her homemade prayerbook was well remembered.
gram
i remember oh so well,
saddled on your loved one's knee,
rocking and bouncing til his muscles ached
with pain and boney leg ceased
its satisfying movement.
i remember disappearing,
leaving you the role of seeker,
and being coddled in your arms
once my hideout was discovered.
i remember butterscotch and lemon drops
so generously shared with all
and the bag filled with bars of chocolate
placed strategically out of my reach.
i remember riding the elevator chair,
and walking crippled with your cane.
i remember helping you up
off that frowned-upon church chair
and turning the pages
of your homemade prayerbook.
i remember your angelic voice
becoming broken and unable to keep up.
i remember short conversations
becoming longer and so painful to endure.
i remember pushing you
through unwanted exercise,
and watching your eyes bellow with tears.
i remember feeding you
in infant-size spoonfuls,
when you simply wanted milkshakes
through a straw.
i remember your forlorned features,
as we told you you couldn't come home,
and your sigh of desperation
feeling trapped with no place to go.
i remember the day we left you,
and the next when you left us.
a comfortable cup of tea ...

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